Kashi family

Husband Fled a Rave Party and Rescued His Wife

Kashi family

On Saturday morning, Irena Kashi walked her dogs in the orchards near Kibbutz Kerem Shalom. When Hamas's attack began, she found herself exposed in an open field as rockets hit nearby. Her husband, Shai, escaped the "PsyDuck" rave to join her, and later sheltered with their children, while Liel their daughter (21) sheltered in her apartment

The Kashi family (from right to left: Irena, Hillel, Leal, Tzhi and Shai). Photo: Meir Riahi

Husband Fled a Rave Party and Rescued His Wife

Kashi family

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05:55
06:30
06:34
06:35
06:58
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09:48
~19:00

The sequence of events

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05:30

Shai's Night at the PsyDuck Rave; Irena's Prepares for her Morning Field Trip

05:55

Irena Heads Out With the Dogs

06:30

Rocket Barrages Begin, Irena Hides Among the Trees

06:34

“Lie on the ground!!!”

06:35

Shai Fleeds the Party

06:58

Shai Rescues Irena From the Orchard

~07:10

Terrorists Outside the House

~07:30

Firing at the House's Warehouse

09:48

"We Want to Come, Dying of Fear"

~19:00

Liel Joins her Parents at Their Safe Room

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Irena, an assistant at the kibbutz's kindergarten, wakes up early on the last day of her holiday break before returning to work. She walks into the nearby orchards with the family’s three dogs. Her husband, Shai, is at "Psyduck"— a trance party held in an open field near their kibbutz. He arrives at the party at 2 a.m. earlier that day. At one point during the night, Shai remarks to his friends, “What courage it takes for anyone to allow a party to take place so close to Gaza.”

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Irena crosses the kibbutz’s gate and heads toward Route 232. This route has a left turn leading to the orchards of Kibbutz Kerem Shalom, Kibbutz Sufa and Kibbutz Holit. About four kilometers away from the kibbutz, Irena spots an IDF vehicle parked nearby and wonders why is it parking there. She ventures deeper into the orchard but chooses not to get too far, finding a spot to watch the sunrise while listening to a podcast

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Irena listens to a podcast when she notices movement in the sky. Removing her headphones, she hears the red alert blaring: rocket barrages from the Gaza Strip begin raining down. She calls Rachel from the kibbutz's emergency team, who instructs her to seek shelter and lie flat on the ground. Irena runs through the fields with the dogs and hides behind a cypress tree. Meanwhile, at home, her middle son, Tzahi (17), rushes to the safe room with his younger brother, Hillel (11). Irena's older daughter, Liel (21), stays with her partner, Maor, in another apartment in the kibbutz, where there is no safe room

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Irena's Bruised Legs
Irena's Bruised Legs
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Rockets and mortar shells fall in the fields surrounding Irena and the dogs. She messages her younger sons to check if they are okay and also texts her eldest daughter, Liel, who urges her, “Lie on the ground!!!” Irena looks toward Route 232 and sees smoke rising in the distance, realizing that something unusual is occurring. She decides to keep on sheltering among the trees

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Irena's Messages With her Daughter Liel
Liel
Lie on the ground!!!
06:34 07/10/2023
Liel
Ask Eliyah the Ravshatz (kibbutz's Military Security Coordinator) to come and rescue you!
06:34 07/10/2023
Irena
Is Hillel in the safe room?
06:36 07/10/2023
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Irena Recorded Message to Her Daughter Liel While She Was Running and Looking for a Hideout with the Dogs
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Shortly after the rocket barrages begin, Shai, Irena's husband, decides to flee the party. He gets into his vehicle and drives quickly toward the orchards of Kibbutz Nir Oz. In the distance, he notices white trucks moving through the fields, unaware that terrorists man them. While driving, Shai calls his daughter, Liel, who informs him that Irena is hiding in the orchards. He then calls Irena and asks her to send him her exact location so he can come to rescue her. At the same time, the kibbutz's Ravshatz (Military Security Coordinator), Eliya Ben Shimol, sends a message to the kibbutz residents, instructing them to lock themselves in their homes

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Real-time Locations Irena and Shay Sent Each Other
Real-time Locations Irena and Shay Sent Each Other
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The Kibbutz Ravshatz (Military Security Coordinator), Eliya Ben Shimol, recording of a Message to the Kibbutz Residents Instructing Them to Lock Themselves in Their Houses
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Shai manages to track Irena down. They drive back to their kibbutz, unaware that terrorists have invaded it just minutes earlier

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Irena and Shai arrive back at their home in the kibbutz. Irena joins their children in the safe room, while Shai stays outside. A few minutes later, the sound of nearby gunshots fills the air. Shai looks through the kitchen window and sees several terrorists passing just outside their house. Grabbing a knife, he crawls toward the safe room

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The Knife Shay Picked
The Knife Shay Picked
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The family hears gunshots striking their warehouse. Throughout the day, battles unfold around the Kashi's home between the kibbutz’s Security Squad and the terrorists. Irena’s daughter, Liel, messages her that she and her partner, Maor, are trapped in their unprotected apartment, terrified: “We’re both shaking,” she writes

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Irena's Conversation With her Daughter Liel.
Irena
How are you guys?
08:28 07/10/2023
Liel
Bad, I'm terrified.
08:28 07/10/2023
Irena
Me too
08:28 07/10/2023
Irena
Did you lock your house's door?
08:29 07/10/2023
Irena
How's Maor doing?
08:29 07/10/2023
Liel
Yes I did.
08:29 07/10/2023
Liel
He is also terrified.
08:29 07/10/2023
Irena
I see.
08:29 07/10/2023
Liel
We're both shaking.
08:29 07/10/2023
Irena
unpleasant...
08:29 07/10/2023
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Liel asks her mother to join her in her house’s safe room. But it is too late; combat outside is in full swing, and a curfew is still in effect. Liel also mentions that she is worried about her friends at the nearby "Nova" party, who haven’t responded to her messages. Irena tries to calm her down

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Irena Took Pictures of Shai While in Their Safe Room, Catching up With the News
Irena Took Pictures of Shai While in Their Safe Room, Catching up With the News
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Irena's Conversation With Her Daughter
Irena
What about you
09:48 07/10/2023
Liel
It's just shocking.
09:48 07/10/2023
Liel
We won't even go to the toilet.
09:48 07/10/2023
Liel
I'm dying of fear.
09:48 07/10/2023
Irena
I'm terrified too, I also have to go to the toilet and can't hold it.
09:48 07/10/2023
Liel
Many of my friends won't answer messages. There are plenty of missing persons.
09:48 07/10/2023
Irena
I'm dying of fear
will be fine.
09:48 07/10/2023
Liel
They were at the party
09:48 07/10/2023
Lyell
They are not available
09:49 07/10/2023
Irena
Please stop.
09:49 07/10/2023
Liel
Many houses were raided by terrorists.
09:49 07/10/2023
Liel
Many people were kidnapped.
09:49 07/10/2023
Liel
We want to come to yours.
09:49 07/10/2023
Irena
According to news reports, more than 200 people have been injured.
09:49 07/10/2023
Liel
And they just keep coming in on and on.
09:49 07/10/2023
Irena
There are people killed and many are hiding.
09:49 07/10/2023
Lyell
We want to come
09:49 07/10/2023
Lyell
We want to come
09:49 07/10/2023
Lyell
We die of fear
09:49 07/10/2023
Lyell
Tell Eliyah we are terrified!
09:49 07/10/2023
Irena
Breathe deep.
10:35 07/10/2023
Inara
Everything will pass, it'll be okay.
10:35 07/10/2023
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Liel and her partner make their way independently to Irena’s house. The family spends the night together in the house’s safe room, waiting for evacuation forces — which don’t arrive until the following evening

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    "Get us Out of Here". Irena speaks from her safe room on 08.10.2023, While Awaiting Evacuation

    The Day After

    08.10.2023 PM

    After 36 Hours in Their House's Safe Room: Eviction to Eilat
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    The Kashi family is evicted to a hotel in Eilat along with the other residents of Kibbutz Kerem Shalom

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    Irena Arrives back to her Home, Two weeks After The Attack, Finally  Allowed to Collect Her Personal Belongings Irena Arrives back to her Home, Two weeks After The Attack, Finally Allowed to Collect Her Personal Belongings
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      “I'm Here Two Weeks After the Nightmare we Went Through, the Rooms are Lifeless”: Irena Documents the Abandoned House in Kerem Shalom
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