Carmela and Noya Dan

Girl and grandmother who were murdered found hugging

Carmela and Noya Dan

Noya Dan, 12, on the autistic spectrum, slept that weekend at the home of her grandmother, Carmela Dan. Carmela and Noya were murdered. Noya's cousins, Sahar (16) and Erez (12) Calderon, were kidnapped along with their father, Ofer Calderon. Sahar and Erez returned to Israel. Their father is still in captivity.

Carmela and Noya Dan

Girl and grandmother who were murdered found hugging

Carmela and Noya Dan

Minute by Minute Circle
06:30
06:49
07:26
08:04
~09:30
10:43
11:13
13:10
19:13
+02:34
+~03:00

The sequence of events

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06:30

Continuous sirens

06:49

Dozens of terrorists infiltrate Nir Oz

07:26

Noya: "Omg, I am in the safe room."

08:04

Carmela: “The house is smashed. Noya is amazing”

~09:30

Noya: “There was now a terrifying boom at the door”

10:43

Carmela: “Gunfire and shouting outside, horror! “

11:13

Carmela: “My house was ransacked”

Terrorists murder Carmela and Noya

13:10

Contact with Galit is also lost

19:13

Galit's sister: 'Mom doesn't answer, either they are kidnapped or murdered'

+02:34

Life Signal from Galit

+~03:00

Assessment: Carmela and Noya are kidnapped

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Carmela and her granddaughter Noya, who is sleeping at her house in Kibbutz Nir Oz, wake up to the sound of sirens and bombs and enter the safe room. In those minutes, in the nearby Kibbutz Kissufim, the mother, Galit, enters the safe room with her partner Yinon and her little daughter Tamar, who stays asleep at home. Galit immediately realizes that this is an unusual barrage.

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Under heavy rocket fire, Hamas Nukhba terrorists infiltrate the kibbutz from four different points; from the vineyard gate closest to the border, from the northern main gate, from the southern rear gate, and through a hole in the fence near the house of the Ravshatz (Military Ongoing Security Coordinator).

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    The first Hamas squad to infiltrate Nir Oz through the main gate Photograph: Security Cameras
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    With incessant barrages in the background, Galit and Yinon family members check how everyone is doing in the shared WhatsApp group. Galit informs that she is in the safe room in Kissufim with Tamar and Yinon, while her older daughter Noya is in Nir Oz with her grandmother. Noya sends a photo of her from inside the safe room and writes: “I slept at Grandma's, omg... I'm in the safe room.” About 20 minutes later, she writes: “Grandma says hi.”

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    Selfie for the worried family: a photo sent by Noya from the safe room at grandmother's Carmela
    Selfie for the worried family: a photo sent by Noya from the safe room at grandmother's Carmela Photograph: Courtesy of the family
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    Correspondence in the WhatsApp group of the Dan-Ilan family
    Zohar
    Is everyone OK???
    07:16 07/10/2023
    Galit
    Yes we are in the safe room Noya is in Nir Oz
    07:16 07/10/2023
    Zohar
    Why is Noya in Nir Oz?
    07:25 07/10/2023
    Noya
    I slept at Grandma's.
    07:25 07/10/2023
    Galit
    Tamar was at Anna's, but came back at night... lucky
    07:26 07/10/2023
    Neue
    omg
    07:26 07/10/2023
    Zohar
    Are you all right?
    07:27 07/10/2023
    Noya
    yes I'm in the safe room
    07:27 07/10/2023
    Zohar
    Yay
    07:30 07/10/2023
    Noya
    omg
    07:33 07/10/2023
    Galit
    Be heroines, girls
    07:33 07/10/2023
    Neue
    thanks
    07:33 07/10/2023
    Zohar
    3>
    07:34 07/10/2023
    Noya
    grandma says hi
    07:50 07/10/2023
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    Galit contacts first only her mother, Carmela, so as not to frighten Noya. In the first hours of the attack Carmela answers her with optimism and humor. Galit urges her to remain locked up with Noya in the safe room because there is infiltration of terrorists into the surrounding Gaza Envelope. At 08:00 Carmela describes that Noya is keeping her cool and that they are as fine as possible, although the windows of her house have been smashed. In the Dan family group she writes an hour later that she has no idea what's going on outside: 'We only worry to be locked in'.

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      Galit's little daughter, Tamar, records herself inside the dark safe room in Kissufim Photograph: Courtesy of the family
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      Correspondence between Galit and her mother, Carmela
      Galit
      Stay in the safe room, lock yourselves in There are terrorists in the settlements, mom There's a gunfight here
      07:48 07/10/2023
      Galit
      Don't go out!!!
      07:48 07/10/2023
      Galit
      Mom, are you okay?
      08:02 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      My house is shattered, we are in the safe room and as fine as possible. Noya is amazing!!!! Wonderful!!! :)))
      08:04 07/10/2023
      Galit
      Good Don't go out!!
      08:11 07/10/2023
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      From the Dan family WhatsApp group
      Lee
      Are you all home? Where is Carmela
      08:29 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      My house is locked, Noya is with me in the locked safe room, the house is smashed, full of glass in the living room, Noya and I are locked in the safe room with breakfast...!!!! 🙁
      08:32 07/10/2023
      Lee
      Sending you strength and love. I don't know what else is possible. As soon as you can leave, we are invited to our place in Hadera.
      08:35 07/10/2023
      Ido
      Welcome here as well. Hold the door handle of the safe room
      08:36 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      The door handle of our safe room is in lock position - raised, and we try to turn on the TV... In my safe room I have a hanging TV from the 1970s and today it doesn't work... doesn't matter, we have a mobile phone.
      08:40 07/10/2023
      Avital
      Hamas announced that a soldier has been kidnapped. I don't know how true this is, but oh my god.
      08:49 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      Everything is possible, we are not updated, just making sure that we are locked in...
      08:59 07/10/2023
      Hadas
      Horror Love you all We are saying goodby. There is no knowing They're shooting here. 3>
      08:59 07/10/2023
      Hadas
      Not sure we'll get out of it
      09:00 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      We love you too, but we will not part!! Keep up the morale, I am protecting Noya ...
      09:00 07/10/2023
      Hadas
      HOLOCAUST...! What's going on here
      09:01 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      The tv in my safe room doesn't work, I have no idea what's going on, just hearing gunshots outside...
      09:02 07/10/2023
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      Galit starts to correspond with her daughter Noya as well. Noya tells her that she is afraid because windows have broken in the house: “Mom, there was now a big scary boom at the door... omg. And all the windows in Grandma's house are broken, in the entrance. Because there was another boom, there are a lot of windows that are broken”.

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      Noya records herself from inside the safe room: "There was now a frightening boom, there are lots of broken windows".
      00:00
      00:00
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      Carmela updates on the Dan family's Whatsapp group that she hears a gunfight and shouting outside the safe room.

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      From the Dan family WhatsApp group
      Ido
      Are there any other army or security forces in Nir Oz? And in Kissufim
      09:58 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      I don't know, I just hear gunfire, booms and screams...!!! 🙁
      10:03 07/10/2023
      Avital
      Ouff
      10:04 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      true
      10:11 07/10/2023
      Atalya
      Is there something new? How are you?
      10:28 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      Nothing new, frightened in the safe room, wreaking havoc in apartments...
      10:33 07/10/2023
      Yishai
      In Nir Oz, know that Doreen has spoken to Channel 12 and they are directing the army to come to your aid
      10:35 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      Make them come here, a lot of destruction and damage already, and Noya with me in the safe room, Hadas is hysterical, alone in her house without tel...
      10:38 07/10/2023
      Lee
      Carmela, do you have any music on CD? Something to distract Noya
      10:39 07/10/2023
      Ido
      Carmela, do you hear Israeli security forces in the kibbutz?
      10:39 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      Unfortunately still nothing, panic, entering houses, breaking, terrible echoes!!!!
      10:42 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      Noya is with me in the safe room, outside shouting... horrifying!!
      10:43 07/10/2023
      Atalya
      Unbelievable. Do you think they came inside your house, too?
      10:43 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      There were noises, I don't dare to go out and check and... go to the bathroom...!!
      10:44 07/10/2023
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      Carmela leaves the safe room for a moment to bring her and Noya essentials and discovers that her house has been ransacked. She quickly goes back inside and writes to Galit: “They came into my house, looted, everything is upside down and messy. You will get to see photos of the house.”

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      Correspondence between Galit and her mother Carmela
      Carmela
      They came into my house, rummaged through every closet, looted!!!! Left everything cluttered and messy, the air conditioner is working so we really didn't hear about the noise... You will get to see photos of the house...
      11:13 07/10/2023
      Galit
      Mom lock yourselves in!!
      11:14 07/10/2023
      Galit
      Don't you dare go out!! Lock
      11:16 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      I opened the door for a moment, and found that my house had been ransacked, unbelievable...!!
      11:19 07/10/2023
      Galit
      Do not go out!!
      11:24 07/10/2023
      Carmela
      We don't go out!!!
      11:51 07/10/2023
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      Terrorists break into the safe room and murder Carmela and Noya in the doorway of the room. They set fire to the house, which burns down almost completely. Galit constantly continues to send messages to her mother and tries to get a signal of life from her. A few days later, the fighter who evacuates the bodies will tell that he found them hugged, with a large blood stain next to them.

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        The house burned down entirely, only two decorative objects survived: Galit shows what she managed to save from her mother's house From: “The Sabbath News,” Kan 11
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        Hamas terrorists are damaging the electricity and cellular infrastructure in Kissufim, and the mobile network in the kibbutz falls. The family is constantly trying to locate Galit, Noya and Carmela - but there is no answer.

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        The Dan family is trying to find out the situation of Carmela and Noya in Nir Oz and Galit in Kissufim. At 19:13, Hadas Calderon, the sister of Galit, who is herself locked in the safe room in Nir Oz, informs that her mother Carmela and her two children, who were staying with their father Ofer, do not answer her: “Shoah, Yom Kippur 2. My children, Ofer and Mom do not answer”.

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        Correspondence in the WhatsApp group of the Dan family
        Hadas
        Shoah horror Yom Kippur 2 My kids, Ofer and mom don't answer Either they are kidnapped or murdered. Burned all the houses Plundered Murdered Shoaaaaaaaahhhh
        19:13 07/10/2023
        Hadas
        Prayyyyyyy Just a world horror
        19:14 07/10/2023
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        When the cellular network in Kissufim returns, Galit updates her family that they are being rescued from the safe room and that she has no contact with her mother and Noya.

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        Correspondence in the WhatsApp group of the Dan family
        Galit
        There was no reception They are rescuing us Tamar and Yenon are with me
        02:34 08/10/2023
        Ido
        OH MY GOD!!! Thank God
        02:35 08/10/2023
        Galit
        Noya and grandma... there's no contact with them
        02:35 08/10/2023
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        When she is on the bus evacuated from Kissufim to the Dead Sea, Galit contacts her sister Hadas, who updates her on the massacre that took place in Kibbutz Nir Oz. Galit tries to find out with her what happened to their mother and Noya. Hadas tells her that they were probably kidnapped: “I sent people to their house. It's burnt out and they are not there.” Galit tries to stay calm because her little daughter Tamar sits next to her.

        The Day After

        08.10.2023

        Family embarks on fight for return of hostages

        18.10.2023

        Family is informed: Noya and Carmela were murdered

        20.10.2023

        Noya and Carmela are laid to rest

        27.11.2023

        Sahar and Erez Calderon freed from captivity
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        Together with her family, Galit embarks on a fight for the return of her daughter Noya and her mother Carmela, when it is believed that they have been kidnapped to Gaza. She conducts interviews in the media, in the country and abroad, and tries to leverage the fact that they have French citizenship. The further family struggle focuses on the release of the kidnapped nephew and niece, Hadas Calderon's children, 16-year-old Sahar and 11-year-old Erez, as well as the release of their father who was kidnapped with them, Ofer Calderon.

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          Terrorists take 12-year-old Erez Calderon to Gaza
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          Family photo. Right: Tamar, Noya, Carmela and Galit Family photo. Right: Tamar, Noya, Carmela and Galit Photograph: Courtesy of the family
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          After the process of identifying the bodies, Galit gets informed that her daughter Noya and her mother Carmela were murdered in the safe room in Nir Oz.

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            Noya and her grandmother Carmela are buried side by side in Kibbutz Ein HaShofet, Carmela's birthplace, after burial was not made possible in Kibbutz Nir Oz. The Shiva took place at a hotel in the Dead Sea to which the family had been evacuated. Amid the mourning, Galit continues to fight for the release of her family - Erez, Sahar and Ofer Calderon.

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              The eulogy written by Galit to Noya From the “Sabbath News,” Kan 11
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              After 52 days in Hamas captivity, the children Sahar and Erez Calderon are released. Their father Ofer is still being held hostage in Gaza.

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                Brother and sister Erez and Sahar Calderon are transported to a Red Cross vehicle, along with the kidnapped Ethan Yahalomi
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