Ram Aharon Family

“I Don't Want to Die on My Birthday”

Ram Aharon Family

On October 7th, Uri, Dalit and Ahci's eldest son, was meant to celebrate his ninth birthday. Instead, his family hid as terrorists looted their home, trying to break into their safe room. At the same time, terrorists attempted to breach Dalit’s parent's shelter, but their caregivers held the door shut, keeping them out

Ram Aharon Family

“I Don't Want to Die on My Birthday”

Ram Aharon Family

Minute by Minute Circle
06:30
~07:15
~07:30
~10:00
12:00
~18:00
~20:00
+~16:00

The sequence of events

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06:30

Red Alerts in Kibbutz Nir Oz

~07:15

Rumors of a Terrorist Infiltration in the Kibbutz

~07:30

Terrorists Seize Dalit’s Parents’ Home as a Stronghold

~10:00

Terrorists Invade the Ram-Ahron Family Home

12:00

Phones Run Out of Batteries

~18:00

IDF Soldiers Reach the Family’s Home

~20:00

Residents Shelter Overnight in Reinforced Kindergarten Building

+~16:00

The Family Evacuates from the Kibbutz

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On Saturday morning, a birthday party was planned for Uri (9), the eldest son of Dalit (44) and Achi Ram-Aharon (41), with friends and relatives arriving from outside the kibbutz. Dalit wakes early, making herself a coffee before starting the preparations. Just as she sits down to drink, Red Alert sirens blare. She rushes to the safe room, calling her husband, while her younger sons, Lior (7) and Oren (4), are already asleep inside

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Updates from the Local Emergency Team
Team Tachi
Eshkol Regional Council Announcement 7 October 2022 | 06:45 Dear residents, Good morning and Shabbat Shalom. In the past few minutes, heavy rocket barrages have been launched at communities within the council and across the country. Please remain in sheltered areas or the safest available space until further notice. We will provide updates as more information becomes available. Public Information 6585*
06:45 07/10/2023
Team Tachi
Stay inside the safe room and lock your doors.
07:06 07/10/2023
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The family huddles in the safe room, hearing the heavy rocket fire. Rumors of a terrorist infiltration spread through the neighborhood WhatsApp group. Achi merges out of the safe room to grab water, food, and Dalit’s phone, which is linked to multiple kibbutz groups. As they go through her WhatsApp messages, they realize it’s no rumor—terrorists are moving between houses, posing as IDF soldiers

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Nir Oz WhatsApp Group
Resident of Nir Oz
Terrorists are in the clinic area, dressed as IDF soldiers
07:15 07/10/2023
Resident of Nir Oz
???
07:17 07/10/2023
Resident of Nir Oz
What's going on? Are they caught already??
07:20 07/10/2023
Resident of Nir Oz
It is better to announce what the situation is. The lack of information is mind-boggling
07:57 07/10/2023
Team Tachi
Eshkol Regional Council Announcement 7 October 2023 | 08:00 Dear residents, Due to concerns about terrorist infiltrations in several communities within the council, we emphasize the importance of remaining indoors, locking all doors, and staying in protected spaces or the safest area available. The military is conducting searches in the area, and we will provide updates as new information becomes available. Public Information – Eshkol 6585 To subscribe to council updates on WhatsApp.
08:00 07/10/2023
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Rachel (77) and Shmuel (86) Ram, Dalit’s parents, also live in the kibbutz. Both require full-time care and live with their caregivers, Savita and Mira. One of them calls Dalit, saying someone is banging on the safe room door and voices outside claiming to be IDF soldiers, ordering them to come out. Dalit urgently warns her not to open the door, explaining that these are terrorists, and instructs her to hold the door handle firmly. Throughout the day, the terrorists occupy Dalit's parent's home, using it as their makeshift headquarters. They attempt to force the safe room door open multiple times, but the caregivers hold the handle firmly, preventing them from raiding the safe room

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Dalit Informs her Parents Caregivers
Dalit
they are in our house, we can't speak
10:49 07/10/2023
Parents' Caregiver
Stay safe
11:07 07/10/2023
Dalit
how are you doing there?
11:07 07/10/2023
Parents' Caregiver
We can hear someone moving inside the house and gunfire. still firmly holding the door's handle
11:11 07/10/2023
Dalit
good, don't stop holding and don't go out
11:13 07/10/2023
Dalit
We still don't know what's going on
11:14 07/10/2023
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The family hears voices inside the house and realizes that terrorists have breached it. They huddle in the safe room, shrouded in darkness and silence, listening to the sounds of destruction and shattering objects. Achi grips the door handle tightly, while Dalit embraces the children, messaging family and friends who desperately try to call for help through the police, fire brigade, and other state authorities. Four-year-old Oren suddenly screams. Dalit quickly covers her mouth with her hand, soothing her until she falls asleep on the bed. The terrorists remain in the house for about an hour.

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Dalit's Conversation with One of her Friends
Dalit
Terrorists are inside our home.
10:13 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Yours? You are locked inside the safe room?
10:14 07/10/2023
Dalit
Yeah, I don't know where's the army. Terrible fear
10:14 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
At On's house in Nir Oz? Be clear
10:14 07/10/2023
Dalit
Inside our home
10:15 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Safe room is locked?
10:15 07/10/2023
Dalit
Achi firmly holds the handlebar.
10:15 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Make sure he keeps on holding it, the army enters the villages and begins to clear the area. It will take time.
10:16 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
How are you doing?
10:46 07/10/2023
Dalit
Still here, terribly scary
10:47 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Don't let go of the door, the army is on the way, special unites too.
10:48 07/10/2023
Dalit
Make them come already
10:49 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
I'm with you guys. Is there electricity? Have you got water?
10:50 07/10/2023
Dalit
Yes we do.
10:50 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Give a signal
10:58 07/10/2023
Dalit
Still no change
10:58 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Are they still in your home?
10:58 07/10/2023
Dalit
Yes
10:58 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
safe room is locked?
10:59 07/10/2023
Dalit
Achi holds firmly
10:59 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
What's going on?
11:06 07/10/2023
Dalit
Unclear at the moment
11:06 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Are they still home?
11:06 07/10/2023
Dalit
Right now I can't hear voices just gunshots outside
11:07 07/10/2023
Friend of Dalit
Do not let go of the handle bar
11:07 07/10/2023
Dalit
Not moving
11:08 07/10/2023
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After about an hour without hearing any sounds from the terrorists, Dalit and Achi's cell phones run out of battery. Staying connected is crucial—they need to communicate with Dalit’s parents and stay updated on the unfolding situation in the kibbutz. They consider leaving the safe room but are unsure if the terrorists have truly left the house or if the house has been booby-trapped. After hesitating, Achi eventually steps out of the safe room and sprints to the bedroom to grab the phone charger

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Dalit's Messages with her Parent's Caregivers
Dalit
Write me
12:40 07/10/2023
Parents' Caregiver
Can we take hand out the door handle?
12:41 07/10/2023
Dalit
well!!! its still very dangerous
12:43 07/10/2023
Parents' Caregiver
Father got out of the room
13:23 07/10/2023
Dalit
My battery's out, as soon as I can I'll update
13:43 07/10/2023
Parents' Caregiver
Dalit I think someone inside is burning something
15:34 07/10/2023
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The family remains in the safe room throughout the entire day. Nine-year-old Uri understands what is happening and keeps repeating, "I don’t want to die on my birthday." At around 18:00, IDF soldiers arrive at the family’s home. They say the code word that had been shared with kibbutz members, and the family opens the safe room door. The soldiers lead them through the kibbutz pathways to the command center, where they reunite with other rescued residents.

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The family is evacuated along with other kibbutz residents to a reinforced kindergarten building, where they spend the night with around a hundred individuals. There, they reunite with Dalit’s parents, who have also been rescued. Later, due to their medical condition, Dalit's parents are transported to Soroka Hospital.

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The family stays in the kindergarten building throughout the following Sunday. During the day, IDF forces escort kibbutz residents to their homes to collect belongings in preparation for a larger evacuation. Around 16:00, Achi returns home under IDF escort, gathering clothes and essentials for the family. Upon his return, the family, along with other residents of the Nir Oz community, boards the evacuation bus to Eilat

The Day After

10/8/2023

Nir Oz Community Evacuated to Eilat

10/9/2023

Uri's Birthday Celebration

During 2024

Dalit's Parents Pass Away

January 2024

The Nir Oz Community Relocates to Carmei Gat
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The Nir Oz community arrives in Eilat on Sunday around 21:00, greeted by local residents waving flags. At the hotel, they receive hot meals, clothing, and donations.

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A day after their evacuation to Eilat, the family celebrates Uri’s birthday at the hotel.

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Uri’s Birthday Celebration at the Hotel in Eilat Uri’s Birthday Celebration at the Hotel in Eilat
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After surviving the events of 07.10.2023, Dalit's parents passed away in 2024. Her father, Shmuel Ram, passed on 6 February 2024, and her mother, Rachel Ram, passed away on 31 August 2024

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Dalit's Parents, Rachel and Shmuel Ram Dalit's Parents, Rachel and Shmuel Ram
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After spending about three months in Eilat, the Ram-Aharon family relocates with the Nir Oz community to Carmei Gat

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